The idea of a "Real You" is such a bullcrap idea. We don't even know who we actually are in a way deeper, spiritual level. It just sounds so egotistical and prideful. "oH, I sHoUlD fInD mY rEaL mE!!!" Oh please... Don't you even DARE say that to my face dude.
No hate for those who actually believe on this, I just think it is just foolishness to think like that in my honest opinion.